Women can be rapists, too.
[TW: Rape in detail of what happened.]
The names have been changed to protect my friends.
An ex-roommate of mine, Marge, had a huge crush on one of my friends, Bruce. Bruce and his best friend Tom were roommates during college and they hung out with Marge a few times. They liked her well enough, but Bruce did not have the same feelings for Marge at all and she knew it.
One night, Marge got a hold of some weed and invited the boys to smoke with her. They agreed, so she went over to their apartment. They smoked and drank for a while and were having fun, and Marge kept encouraging Bruce to keep smoking and drinking more and more while keeping herself relatively sober. Eventually, Bruce was so intoxicated that he literally couldn’t move or speak.
Tom said that he was tired, and Marge all but shoved him into his room to make him go to bed, leaving her alone with Bruce. When she was sure that Tom was asleep, she got naked, went over to Bruce, and started taking his clothes off. He was absolutely horrified.
She started having her way with him, trying to get him turned on. She began performing oral sex on him and after that, began to have sex with him. Remember, he was so intoxicated that he couldn’t even move or speak. He kept trying to say, “NO!” and to shove her away, but the most he could muster was a limp flailing of his arms and mumbling. It took him a few minutes to be able to actually shove her away and tell her to stop.
And she was shocked. She planned this whole thing, thinking that she could just have her way with him if he were intoxicated, knowing full well that he wanted nothing to do with her in any sexual or romantic sense. To this day, she doesn’t understand why Bruce and Tom hate her guts and refuse to have anything to do with her. I am no longer friends with her, either.